Easter Freebie!

Friday, March 1, 2013

Happy March! Did you make it through February? I am so excited about all the great things happening in March (my birthday may be one of them).

Things are little crazy around the household this weekend. I have a conference to prepare for tonight and to attend in the morning and tomorrow evening the Hillsdale NewLife singers will be staying the night with us. Very excited for them to be joining us Sunday Morning! So in lieu of photo friday how about a freebie? This beauty is going to go up on my mantel. This is one of my favorite hymn and such a great reminder that I need to hear all the time. Nothing can replace the assurance of knowing that I am able because He lives today and for forever. 

To download this free Easter printable just click on the link under the photo.

                                                              Free Easter Printable

Happy Friday everyone! Have an amazing weekend, I know we will! :)

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what if?

Thursday, February 28, 2013

 I am so excited to tell you more about The Aegis Element! The plans and vision that God has given them are truly amazing. But, before we get in to who The Aegis Element is first I want to make sure you understand the reality of what human trafficking is.

Human trafficking as defined by Trafficking in Persons Protocol and adopted by the United Nations [2006] is, “the recruitment, transportation, transfer, harboring or receipt of persons, by means of threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, of abduction, of deception, of the abuse of power or of position of vulnerability or of the giving or receiving of payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person, for the purpose of exploitation.”

Human trafficking is modern day slavery, and today there are 27 million slaves worldwide. There are more slaves today than there ever has been in history. This should be shocking and disgusting to us, it is to me. 

The first time I had ever heard of the idea of trafficking was almost 7 years ago, a couple of days before my wedding. One of my dearest friends had come into town from Southern California to be with me on my big day. I can't tell you how much I love and admire her. She had just gotten back into the states from taking a year long mission trip. Part of her time was spend in Bangkok, working with trafficked women. These women were forced into prostitution, some of them had been tricked, some of them had been forced, and some had been lied to enough that they believed they had no other options. 

I can tell you that sitting in my apartment late that night hearing horrific stories of how man has taken what God had meant to be so good and turned it into something evil and disgusting. I was about to get married, Daniel and I both saved ourselves for each other. We were going to get to experience this gift God has given to us, and all I could think about were these women and children (young children) being forced into this horrific life. Right there God used my friend to completely brake my heart. I have had a burden ever since. 

What is important that we know is that this isn't just happening in Thailand, or remote villages in Africa. It is happening right here in the Untied States, and in Oklahoma. Did you know that there is not one single county in our great state that does not have a trafficking record on file? Not one! My friends this is happening in our cities, towns, neighborhoods, churches, in our own backyard. 

The ugly truth of what human trafficking really is, is not an easy pill to swallow. It would be much easier to just forget what we just learned and burry our head in the sand. There are many times I wish I didn't know some of the most heartbreaking stories I had ever heard. I wish that I didn't see my two beautiful daughters and think of all the other daughters who are being abused right now. It sure would be easier. Or, we can take a stand and do something about it. What if we were the generation to stand up and say enough! What if our great great grandchildren could tell their friends "my family was apart of the movement that ended slavery once and for all." What if?

There are a lot of amazing organizations that are taking huge strides to end slavery. A lot of these non-profits are focused on finding the women and children that have been trafficked and rescuing them getting them out of that situation. But there are few non-profits (that I know of) whose whole purpose is rehabilitating victims back into a normal life. I can't begin to imagine the damage that is done to these victims physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The statistics are alarming of the rate of women going back to their pimps or committing suicide. You have to understand that these woman haven't just been abused physically but mentally as well. They have been told that they are worthless and that no one could ever love them, that they will never be able to do anything but use their bodies. 

This is where The Aegis Element comes in. Their plans for restoring these broken women are amazing, I've never heard anything like it and I completely believe that they will be making a huge difference in this world. I'd like for them to tell you in their own words what their purpose is:

The Aegis Element is committed to the long-term care and residency of female human trafficking survivors. We strive to have an impact on each survivor’s unique growth and development process and their ability to “belong” in community and thrive in their place in this world. We strive to provide services such as, medical and psychological attention, legal aid, education, personal and spiritual growth, leadership development, and developing entrepreneurial skills to bring healing and restoration to the original purpose of their life before they faced the unexpected atrocity of human trafficking. Our focus is on developing their unique strengths, talents, intellect, soul, and innate desires. 

The best way I know how to explain it is that when we think of these victims we think we want them rescued and restored. We want them pulled out of that environment, and put back into ours, a normal life. 

When we realized we have gained weight and we know we want to loose it there are two things we know. One is that we know we are over weight, two we know what weight we want to be at. However if we don't make a plan to get from over weight to ideal weight it won't ever happen. It is the same thing with these victims, if all we do is rescue them they will not be able to go back into a normal life. The Aegis Element is going to help these women set their goals of where they want to be and then they are going to go with them every step of the way to achieve those goals. Amazing! 

I am so proud to be even a very small part of what they are doing. If you would also like to join with them I know they would love to hear from you. Here is some contact information;
Email:
info@aegiselement.org
                                
Mailing Address:
105 Lynhurst Circle

Hendersonville, TN 37075


Phone Number:

615.584.5811


I know today was a lot longer post than usual, so thanks for sticking with it and reading it til the end. This is something that I have become very passionate about and I could ramble on for quite some time. I ask that you would join me in praying for The Aegis Element and for the 27 million slaves that are here today.

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how to have your cake and eat it too

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

I really like to buy things, some might say I have a problem. To that I say my love language is gifts so that makes it okay, right? I love to buy things for my girls, my man, my friends, my family, even people I don't actually know. (I credit that to my papa) It is fun to buy for others, and occasionally myself. It doesn't have to be great big expensive things, it's fun to surprise someone with a cherry coke from sonic or their favorite candy bar. It's just fun to buy.



As much as I love to buy I love even more to be able to give. We love as a family to be able to help others or give to non-profits who are making a difference. Being a one income family we aren't always able to give as much as we'd like. So when I find a company that when you buy you are also giving I'm pretty much sold. What is better than buying something you want and at the same time you are helping someone.





These are a few of my favorite places to spend money. Most if not all of you are familiar with Toms, buy a pair give a pair. Krochet Kids and NightLight are similar to that, buy their products to support women in Africa and in Thailand. Women who have no other means to support themselves or their families. I encourage you to check them out, click on the links below to learn more:

                               Krochet Kids                  NightLight

Why am I telling you about my shopping habits? For a couple of reasons: first is to encourage you to shop wisely, there are a lot of organizations that aren't just trying to make a profit. They are out to help others, try to find one you like. Second is to let you know about something new at SweetNormaJean.

As you know I am a photographer and have an Etsy shop, I do these things on the the side because I  love to do it and to help supplement our income. I feel like I have a responsibility to do more with what I have been given. God has blessed our family and he has blessed SweetNormaJean and I want to give back. 

From this point on when you shop SweetNormaJean or choose SweetNormaJean photography 10% of what you give will go to help women who have been trafficked. Let me be clear that this is 10% of everything you give, not 10% of my profit. It will be going to a non-profit that I am proud to support; The Aegis Element. 



They are and will be doing some amazing things to help women, I want to be apart  of that and I hope you do too. Come back tomorrow for a more in-depth look at who Aegis Element is and what they are doing that is going to change the world. 

For more info about shopping SNJ click on the Shop SNJ tab above, or for photo session prices email me at: sweetnormajean1@gmail.com. Don't forget Easter Mini Sessions are coming up quick and only a few spaces are left!

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Photo Friday Returns!

Friday, February 22, 2013

hello friends, how was your week? Ours was busy as usual, but a good week nonetheless. I am excited about the weekend and all that is planned. Today I'm taking a group of teen girls to "the city" for some play time today, tonight we are going to a new small group in town for the pastors and their wives, and tomorrow all the in-laws are coming over for a visit to celebrate the preacher's birthday. Can't wait to get my hands on my sweet nephew! Remember him from my newborn session? You won't believe how big and handsome he is, maybe we'll have time to squeeze in a little mini session in :).

I can't tell you how excited I am about this smallgroup tonight! We have been looking for ways to get more connected with the town, meet more people, so I think this is a perfect way to start. Another reason I'm excited is because I need accountability, I need to be encouraged and pushed. That is what (in my opinion) makes a smallgroup so great. I've really been missing our old smallgroup lately, great friends who not only help keep me in line but are so much fun to be around. So I have pretty high hopes for tonight, because even though I know there is no way I can replace those relationships (not that I want to, I'm still trying to figure out a way to get them to come here hint hint) I do have high hopes for making new ones. Do you belong to a smallgroup or have accountability partners?

I have the best accountability partner, she keeps me in line lol. I know that she prays for me and my family, she always encourages me, and asks me the hard questions that I may not like but need to be asked. There are some people who are in your life and you know it is because God put them there, that is my accountability partner.  Her family means so much to mine, and I'm so excited to share her family session from way back in the fall.


Now I have known the Mcdougal's for a long time, when they first started coming to our church I was in high school and they volunteered to be youth sponsors. Since then they have been sunday school teachers, smallgroup leaders, marriage counselors, and spiritual mentors to both me and my husband. Needless to say we really love this family and would do pretty much anything for them.







This one is my favorite because I think it shows who they are, such a fun family. We love you guys! And I'm so blessed to have you be apart of our lives!

If you don't have an accountability partner I want to urge you to find one, start praying for God to lay someone on your heart. There is no way to list all the ways I have benefited from have mine.

I've got teens waiting on me so I've got to run, say a prayer for me (10 teen girls on one van) and have a great weekend!


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love is all you need, but a sense of humor doesn't hurt

Friday, February 15, 2013

I have an ongoing conversation with a good friend about how difficult it is to photograph your own children. It's reassuring to know I'm not the only one who struggles with this. I don't know if it is because my expectations are too high for both my girls behavior and the outcome of the photos or if they just like to see their mama get flustered. Either way I feel like it can be a battle sometimes. I had made them outfits to wear to church for Valentine's day but getting a decent photo of them before or after church is practically impossible so I had made up my mind to just have a little session here at the house so I can have proof of them in clean matching outfits.



This is how we started, silly faces from Charlee and Jo saying "I'm not really into this mom", but it got better. 




The only way I could get Jo to take a few by herself was to get a chair for her to sit in (she loves chairs, loves them!). 

 Jo doesn't think mommy is as funny as daddy so we had to get a little help from the preacher.


She is definitely daddy's girl. Charlee as many of you already know is a bit of a ham and the hard part isn't getting her in front of the camera it is getting a natural expression.


Even though this is not at all what I was going for this shot makes me laugh because it is real Charlee. 
I was able to get a few shots that were a little better.





I also got to take some quick photos of one of the cutest 4 month olds around and I'm excited to share those with you too!




It's been a while since I've taken photos of anyone other than my kids so I was pretty excited to get these. It's easy to get great shots when the subject is so stinkin' cute!




And now because I know you will enjoy these here are a few of the not so pleasant shots:



This is really how most of the session went, fighting over who sat in the chair and who stood where. I'm sure I'm not the only mom who has this problem right?

Now that Valentine's Day is officially over I've got some excited news:


I have decided to do some Easter mini's! I'm really excited about this, hoping to meet some new clients and visit with some of my regulars. I will be in OKC on March 16th and on the 23rd will be in Wilburton. This will be an on-location shoot, and I'm pretty pumped for the plans in store! 

Please help me get the word out, and if you want a session please book now. I am so excited about these, and to see all your beautiful kids decked out in their Easter finest!


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Happy Valentine's Day!

Thursday, February 14, 2013

It's been a long time, but I'm glad to be back with a special treat: a valentine just for you from my girls!


I'm discovering how much fun valentine's day is with kids! Don't get me wrong I love all the mushy stuff with the preacher but if I ever made him pancakes with heart sprinkles I'd get laughed at.

It's a whole new level of fun when it comes to my girls. I'm pretty excited for them to wake up so they can get their v-day surprises (lipgloss, nail polish, candy, new cups, and a new movie) fun girly stuff.

How are you celebrating today?

How are you telling the ones you love how much you love them?

Hoping that you and yours all have a wonderful day, eat lots of heart shaped candy and desserts!

And come back tomorrow for a brand new photo friday! hint: it's a valentine day session that you won't want to miss!!!

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return of photo friday

Friday, January 18, 2013

Annnnnd we're back!

After a little hiatus photo friday is back, and happy to be back into the swing of things.

In honor of my oldest, and best friend's birthday I'm going to share with you her family's session from last fall.


They just happen to live on some really beautiful property that was perfect for our session. I couldn't of been happier with the outcome. 


I don't know about you, but I only have a few friends that I still talk to from high school. I have only one friend that I'm still close with, that would be Nicole (most of you know her as Bri but she will forever be Nicole to me). I am very blessed to have the many dear friends I have, true friendship is rare and hard to find, and to have that for most of your life you are truly lucky. Nicole and I have been through thick and thin together, we have a lot of amazing memories and some painful ones as well. I think it's safe to say that our friendship at this point will make it through just about anything.  



Our daughters are close in age and it is so much fun to watch them play together, it's like us all over again. I love her little ornery face in this one, I had to chase her a bit to get a real smile but it was worth it. Plus I love a good sun flare.



It was so windy that day, we were worried that all the shots would be completely windblown. Thankfully we had a few brief moments when it died down enough to capture these. 


Happy Birthday friend, so thankful for your friendship and can't wait to see where The Lord takes us these next 28 years! 


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